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忙着,清醒做事;闲着,糊涂做人

发布时间:2019-02-05所属栏目:人生感悟
  

幸运飞艇开奖直播 www.52kongyaji.com   有人说:“人生两件事:忙着,清醒做事。闲着,糊涂做人。”

  糊涂是一种心态,更是一种修为。

  在孔子眼中,糊涂是“中庸”,在老子看来,糊涂是“无为”,在庄子心里,糊涂是“逍遥”。

  心里明白,面上糊涂,何不是做人的一种境界。

  记得有这样一个故事:

  两个落水者。一个视力极好,一个患有近视。

  两个落水者在宽阔的河面上挣扎,很快就筋疲力尽了。

  突然,视力好的那位看到了前面不远处有一艘小船,正在向他们这边漂来?;加薪拥哪俏?,也模模糊糊地看到了。

  于是两人鼓起勇气,奋力向小船游去。

  游着游着,视力好的那位停了下来。因为他看清了,那不是一艘小船,而是一截枯朽的木头。

  但患有近视的人却并不知道那是一截木头,他还在奋力向前游着。

  当他终于游到目的地,并发现那竟然是一截枯朽的木头时,他已离岸不远了。

  视力好的那位就这样在水里丧失了生命,而患有近视的那位却获得了新生。

  很多事不知道的比知道的好,不灵通的比灵通的要好,不精明的比精明的要好。

  这就是人们常说的“难得糊涂”。

  著名经济学家马寅初先生说过:“苟无他故,必活百年”。其深刻寓意,就在于此。

人生两件事:忙着,清醒做事;闲着,糊涂做人

  其实,人生本来就是糊涂的,快乐和幸福就藏在糊涂之中。

  一旦清醒了,可能所有的快乐和幸福,也就随之烟消云散。

  郑板桥曾题过很多著名的匾额,其中最为脍炙人口的要数“难得糊涂”和“吃亏是福”。

  关于这两幅匾额的由来,还有一段传说。

  郑板桥任潍县知县时,他的堂弟给他寄来了一封书信,原来,堂弟和邻居为了祖传房屋的一段墙基的归属发生了争执,闹到了兴化县衙门,堂弟希望郑板桥能函告兴化县知县,以便自己赢得官司。

  郑板桥看完信后,立即赋诗回书:“千里捎书为一墙,让他几尺又何妨?万里长城今犹在,不见当年秦始皇。”豁达的胸怀和乐观的心性显而易见。

  之后,他有感而发,挥毫写下了“难得糊涂”和“吃亏是福”两幅字,并在“难得糊涂”下加注:“聪明难,糊涂难,由聪明而转入糊涂更难,放一着,退一步,当下心安,非图后来福报也。”

  在“吃亏是福”下加注:“满者损之机,亏者盈之渐,损于己则盈于彼,各得心情之半,而得心安既平,且安福即在是矣。”这几行款跋,既是郑板桥对两幅字的解释,更是对自己心性修养和处世哲学的概括。

  人生在世,能吃亏是做人的一种境界,会吃亏是处事的一种睿智。

  心要简单,人要糊涂,计较得少,不为琐事忧,才能活得自在顺遂,舒服宽广。

  木心说:“好人的世界,总有一种糊涂。”

  白岩松说:“人生的两个基本点是糊涂点,潇洒点。”

  前段时间网上有这么一件事刷频了:

  外卖小哥在送货的路上,不慎发生车祸,与一位骑摩托车的大爷相撞。虽然两人都没事,但是货物却几乎全毁了。这意味着两个为生活奔命的人,这一天的努力全白费了。

  但事后,两人的做法却令人意外:

  外卖小哥和大爷没有再继续赶路,而是就地举起酒杯共饮,有什么天大的事,都干了这杯酒再去说,再去烦。

  “人这一生,就是过完一关又一关,谁还没有跌倒狼狈的时候,大不了在哪跌倒就在哪躺一会儿呗。如果说生活真的教会了我什么,那就是享受失败。”

  是啊,你拥有的都是侥幸,你失去的都是人生。最难熬的时候,与其计较得失,不如难得糊涂。

  糊涂不是傻气,也不是愚昧,而是一种气度,一种修养,更是一种境界。

  人活一世,没必要跟任何人和事太较真,有时候,我们就要活得糊涂一点,活得自在一点,活得随性一点,睁一只眼闭一只眼过日子,这既是放过了自己也是放过了他人。但凡看看那些跟别人太过于斤斤计较的人,多半活得不开心。

  对朋友糊涂一点,不计较付出才能得到;对别人糊涂一点,这样才能赢得信任;对爱人糊涂一点,给他自由也给自己空间;对事情糊涂一点,船到桥头自然直。

  钱财利益上糊涂一点,不伤和气;人情算计上糊涂一点,无愧良心;争名夺利中糊涂一点,不费脑筋;流言蜚语里糊涂一点,不累耳根。

  人生不满百,何必怀千岁忧呢?

  余生,就要糊涂地过,快乐地活,知足地乐!

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